(including sex) were hurt or threatened. So we were sore. We were 'burned up.' On our grudge list we set opposite each name our injuries. Was it our self-esteem, our security, our ambitions, our personal, or sex relations, which had been interfered with? We were usually as definite as this example:
| I’m resentful at:|| The Cause || Affects my: |
| Mr. Brown || His attention to my wife. |
Told my wife of my mistress.
Brown may get my job at the office.
| Sex relations. |
| Mrs. Jones || She’s a nut -- she |
snubbed me. She committed her hus-
band for drinking.
He’s my friend.
She’s a gossip.
| Personal relation- |
| My employer || Unreasonable-Unjust |
- Overbearing -
Threatens to fire
me for my drinking
and padding my ex -
| Self-esteem (fear) |
| My wife || Misunderstands and |
nags. Likes Brown.
Wants house put in
| Pride -- Personal |
sex relations --
We went back through our lives. Nothing counted but thoroughness and honesty. When we were finished we considered it carefully. The first thing ap-